Its been almost a year since my last entry.. 9 months to be exact. And, how my life has changed..
My last entry stopped at the discovery of my pregnancy.. today, our little baby boy is out and kicking. And he's already almost 2 months old! And, indeed, life now is really different for Huakai & myself compared to a year ago.. let me recall.. all the way back to when Huakai proposed to me..
That was in December 2006, where HK proposed to me while we were on holiday in Paris.. I had just joined ICI and HK was at Legg Mason. Then for the whole of the next year, we were happily preparing for our wedding. Big day was on 10 May 2008 and it was probably the happiest day of my life. =) There was also our spectacular 23 days honeymoon in Canada and Alaska, where HK and myself were totally relaxed, away from work and busy Singapore, just taking in the beautiful sights and loving each other. Hmm.. I miss the honeymoon so much.. it was only a year ago but it seems like such a long time ago, probably bcos so many things have happened since then. Can't wait for our next holiday together!
Anyway, after our honeymoon, we both got back to SG and I was so so busy with work for the next few months. Then, in September 2008, I found out I was pregnant! And then, for the next 9 months, we spent most of our time preparing for Wayne's arrival! It was so much fun, shopping every weekend for the many many things we had to buy!
In between that time, HK also changed jobs, from Legg Mason to Mirae in Sep 2008 to Prudential in Feb 2009, while I remained in ICI.. And, during this time when I was pregnant, HK and I also learnt how to play mahjong, which later became a weekly affair with my family! Hehe! So little Wayne was a mahjong baby in my tummy, alwasy hearing mommy "pong" and "che".. =)
Wayne finally arrived on 20 April 2009. And since then, HK and I have been busy busy busy... not much time for ourselves. Not much sleep for me! But finally after almost 2 months, I think we are getting used to this lifestyle and have learnt to look after little Wayne pretty well. So now, we are able to sneak in quite a bit of time for each other in between caring for him.
I'm now still on my maternity leave but its hard for me to go out freely as I'm breastfeeding. Have to make sure I express out milk for Wayne if I am going out without him, have to make sure I arrange for someone to look after him and I can't stay out too long if not my breasts will get hard with milk which can be quite painful! So now, its max 6 hours, if not I will have to bring out my breast pump to express out. But 6 hours is good enough for me, cos often I will miss Wayne so much, I'd hurry home to see him before 6 hours is up. =)
So you see, life has indeed changed very much for me. In the past, it was always just HK and me. And, I had time for my ballet lessons, Amore gym classes, my many manicures, hair treatments, weekly meet up with friends, holidays, etc etc.. but I'm not complaining cos I feel I've accomplished so much. From the time HK proposed to me, it has been one event after another.. keeping HK and myself busy. We have gone through so much in such a short span of time. It has really brought HK and I closer to each other. I have learnt to be so thankful to HK because without him, I wouldn't have gone through everything that has happened so happily. He has been my pillar of strength in every phase of my life. And, I love him more than ever. With him, I feel secure and know that come what may in the future, I'd be able to go through it with him. He makes me look forward to the future, to all the many happy moments to come. =)
Well, come 20 July, I will be back at work. And again, it will be a new experience for me, juggling work and caring for Wayne. I hope I will be able to cope with work and at the same time, be a good mommy to Wayne and a loving wife to HK. And, yes, I do hope we would be having our own home very soon. Thats probably my greatest wish for the moment! Wish me luck!